Dearest Reader,
I have never sent an email like this before.
Every offering I have ever had, The Table, The Council, all of it, lived in the P.S. of a letter.
You have never gotten a dedicated email from me about something I'm building. This is the first one. I'm sending it because what I'm about to tell you is too important to bury at the bottom of my letters.
I have two accountability practices I've been running quietly with women in my life.
The first: every evening, a friend and I text each other our wins. Just: These are my wins and the little things that mattered today. When I shared this in an earlier letter and on IG, the responses I received told me I wasn't the only one who needed this.
The second: in different seasons of my life, when I am in a rebuild, when I am locking in, I start a group chat with my girlfriends. One thing we each want to accomplish in the next 30 days. We get in there and we keep each other accountable. We remind each other who we are when it gets heavy. And every single time, every single one of us accomplishes what we had on our goal list and then some. 💸
I kept thinking: more women need this. Not a course, not another "DM to get the guide", but an actual accountability room. A whiteboard bestie. Someone who says "let's lock in together" and sticks with you.
The response to my IG post about my whiteboard session got dozens of DMs. Because every ambitious woman recognizes that feeling, the one where you finally have someone in your corner who wants you to be big.
That's what I'm building this summer.
The F*ck Around and Find Out Challenge. Thirty days. July 1 to July 30.
This is not a "hard 75" program that gets launched every summer, burns you out by week two, and leaves you feeling like the problem was you. That model was never built for how we actually live.
This is different by design. It's sustainable. This is not about more maxxing, this is about putting in place the rituals and behaviors that build the life you want, without blowing up the life you already have.
You can still live. You just stop abandoning yourself in the process.
👉🏽 The 30-day container will guide you to make the commitments that matter, prioritizing the whole self: body, money, your ideas, boundaries. You pick your goal and then you lock in.
Because the only reason any of us actually follow through is when we have a considerable amount of self-discipline and accountability to support. This is what this is.
No more "I'll start Monday." No more "when I have more time."
No more negotiating with yourself about whether you deserve to go first.
You don't need to find yourself. You need to choose yourself. That's the whole thing and the F*ck Around and Find Out challenge will make sure you put yourself first.
🚨 Get on the waitlist. You get access a full day before doors open to everyone, full details and your spot secured first.
This is the summer you become lethal.
Vanessa
P.S. If you'd rather not receive dedicated emails about my offerings, you can opt out below and stay on the Letters from the In-Between list. No hard feelings.
P.P.S. I teased this last week, and today I am saying it plainly. If you have been waiting for a sign to put yourself first, this is it. It's only a month, can you imagine the best that could happen?!
Get on the list.
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I spent over a decade building multi-million dollar companies while slowly erasing myself in the process. I was successful by every external measure, and completely disconnected from what I actually wanted.
When I finally stopped, I had to learn how to hear my own voice again. How to make decisions without asking for permission. How to choose myself without the guilt.
Now I co-create with exceptional women to do what I wish I'd done sooner: stop performing someone else's version of success and start building something that's actually theirs.
I'm also building my next global company, which means the women I work with right now get a founder who's in it, not someone teaching from the sidelines.
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